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Nether Maiden Nor Crone - Also, Customer Service Week
Monique_quiet
[info]yduras

[info]bethynyc's post reminded me of the existence of [info]menstrualhut, and I swung over there for a few moments. It's not topical to me right this second, but still a nice female space, and I ducked into one of the conversations.

I was struck that many of the posters mentioned they'd only been menstruating for a few years, placing me in a position of comparative experience. "Holy cow," I thought, "I'm a crone!" Except, in retrospect, I'm not really at the cronehood stage. It's that I'm skipping the Mother phase. I don't mean that I don't nurture other people's kids, but that's not really being a Mother in the whole mystic journey sense.

When you're not planning to spawn, what is it that you are, between Maiden and Crone?


It's still Customer Service Week.

Tuesday swag to date:

  • Astonishingly, none.

Tip of the day:

People skills are vital when delivering exceptional customer service, but they must be joined with the knowledge of your products and services in order to produce positive results and satisfied customers.

Yesterday's swag went to [info]grandbuddha - I'm sure he'll come up with a use for it.

Today there was some minor drama as the Customer Relations department is going out for drinks on Thurday, an outing that our group has been included in during past years' CSWeeks. Turns out it is a budgetary issue, not a snub.


When you're not planning to spawn, what is it that you are, between Maiden and Crone?

Perhaps a Teacher/Mentor?

Or how about "Lady"? :-)

When you're not planning to spawn, what is it that you are, between Maiden and Crone?

Lover, Dancer, Artisan, Lady. Going with the antique feel of the original, I personally like how Lady fits, though some wiccans may not approve, lol.

I have heard of that phase, when not as mother, as warrior. And then, there is warrior/mother crossover, as observed whenever a mother is protecting her young.

You can still be a mother. Being a mother doesn't necessarily mean having children, just as pulling the empress in a tarot spread doesn't mean fertility in the sense of having kids.

Of course, that's if you go in for the whole triple goddess thing. Naturally not all goddesses are triple goddesses and not all triple goddesses are in the aspects of maiden, mother crone. I mean, can you picture the Morrigan--Babh, Macha, Nemain--as maiden or mother? I certainly can't.

True, although I'm not much of a bloody warrior either :)

I'm in the same position (with the addition of not being interested in children at all whatsoever so no nuturing of /any/ kids), and as I'm definitely not a warrior, I prefer Lady.